Friend or "Friend"?

Hi there. It is a new day, and here I am writing a new post.

Friend or "Friend"?

What is a friend for? Always, we heard people say or read on any books about "A friend in need is a friend indeed". What is the meaning of friend? Do we really need friend? Or Friend?

I'm not trying to confuse anybody here but just by saying "Hey meet my friend" isn't making the "Friend" a real friend. We could simply talk to any stranger and know a little about him and you can consider he or she is your friend. Below are few types of friend that I can think of. You might be fall into any of the below categories. Check it out!

1. Occasional Friend.
Ever thought about this? This type of friend is those that you call only when there is event happening. Like clubbing, shopping or party. You might be familiar with this words - "Ndak payah la kita bawa si Anu gi clubbing tu. Nanti dia boring, susah lagi kita mo layan2 dia nanti". Sounds familiar?

2. A Giver
This is the most rare type of friend. A friend that will give anything that he think he should give. Or bring any present whenever going to other friend's house just for the sake of bringing present! He/she will also willing to pay all the bills whenever you having dinner or anything that involve $$$. If you have this kind of friend, appreciate him/her for he/she is the most precious friend you will have.

3. The Loaner
A friend who has everything that you would want to buy and is usually willing to lend you whatever you ask for. But this friend is not "Ah long", he just want to "tolong".

4. The Jerk
A friend who is annoying in terms of behaviours or talks. The word came out from they mouth sometimes irritate our heart but they didn't mean it. But they will appologize later if they realize they did something wrong. Anyway, this type of friend has a golden heart. A jerk doesn't has to be really bad. HEhehe..

5. The School / Work Friend
They are the people who help you get through the school or work day that you never really see anywhere else. You are not so close to them, but always they are the one to find whenever you are bored in the office or school.

6. The Best Friend
A friend that know you inside and out and the type of person you can easily spend the whole day with everyday. You would share your secret with this friend without hesitation. This friend even know how long is your ..... or how big is your .....

7. The Men's Best Friend
A friend that will love you unconditionally in exchange for a little attention. You wont realize this because you grew up together and never think of fall in love with him/her. You will call this friend when you need him/her. This friend is also rare as he/she might be your life partner. I think it happened to someone I know... Now, who was that?? Hmmm.....

8. The Significant Other
This friend known by many names, most frequently called husband or wife. They are the ones you share your life with. Sometimes, the greatest friend might be this type of friend.

Well, it is up to you guys to judge which one is Friend and which one is "Friend".

God created us, human to have friends. There are many types of friend in this world and we might be fall into one of the above categories. So choose wisely...

Aramai Tii - Banned?

Hi there. This post is a response after get the comment from one of my blogger friend - Pet about my last post.

I didn't know the words get banned. It is banned? Or Not? I'm not aware of this.. Hahaha..

Please do tell me if it really get banned.. Thanks.

Aramai Tii

I'm sure the title is attractive right? Especially for Sabahan. This post is not about inviting you guys to an Aramai Tii session but it is just another post from me.

The words - Aramai Tii. What is the actual meaning for the words? Well there are a lot of definitions of it. The words itself has become famous not only among Sabahans but also other people from other states. I heard Amy Search shout it once (in Mentor - TV3 I guess..).

Most of Sabahans, especially the guys have one common meaning of Aramai Tii. Which is.... Aramai Tii! Hahaha. I mean ALCOHOL SESSION. I don't know if it is right to call it as tradition, but I rather call it a culture, where Sabahans always have Aramai Tii session. When there is party, small or big, it has become a must-have session.

That can be positive, or negative as well. You see, some people are willing to spend more of their money for Aramai Tii. They don't care if they money running out as long as they can taste the alcohol, which make this a negative situation. Others prefer they have it once a month, once in two months and so on... And there are those people who don't drink at all (Save money... Hehe..).

As for myself, I like Aramai Tii as well. In fact we just had a session with some new friends at my place like Gurangak, Donjoe and the others. HEhehe... We finished at 6.00am on Sunday (we started at 9.00pm on Saturday) and we had fun! That's because all of them are fun people. Thanks especially to Danjoe for entertaining us with Dangdut songs.. LOL. It is fine if it is once-in-a-while. I don't care if I drink up until the next day. But to drink everyday or everyweek? That is not my style. HEhehe..

While I'm writing this, I think some of our friends is currently having their Aramai Tii session. I'm not good in advising people especially in this matter.... But please think before you drink, you can save your money if you cut one day of Aramai Tii session. And please, please, please don't get drunk if you are driving. Think of your love ones... You can make a difference.

That's all for now. Until next time! Bye...

A New Header

At last I got time to make my header look more attractive. Hehehe..

Well everybody needs some changes right? I actually edited few parts of my blog. Removing unnecessary things like the Google advertisement and other stuff. The result is... I like the look of my blog now. It is more tiny than before. And look! I even added my blogger friends list. Hohoho.. (I just figured out how to do it today.... ;p)

That's it for now.. Hopefully, I will post something interesting soon.